Women not only appreciate a giving lover, but they also value someone who is willing to demonstrate the movement, the variation and the endurance they need when it comes to making sure they are not only pleased but exhausted after foreplay. Oral sex for women is a completely different beast than it is for men. While you need a happy medium between hard and soft, fast and slow, suction and licking, what she needs is a balancing act, too. Thirty-four year old Sarah from Nashville says that one of the best qualities of her husband is how he is a giver — without expecting anything in return. For Sarah and for most women, their past oral experiences always resulted in a guy nodding to his member, demanding a tit-for-tat. Why the expert says this is hot: AASECT-certified sexuality counselor and certified clinical sexologist Dawn Michael says many women struggle with the ability to let go when someone is going down on them.
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Oral sex has become more commonplace in sexual encounters among people of all ages. Prior to the Sexual Revolution of the s, it was just considered taboo, an act reserved for homosexuals or prostitution. So, when it comes to giving and receiving oral sex , does one gender find it more pleasurable than the other? Of the students who were heterosexual, and who had at least one sexual experience in the past, about 70 percent of both sexes reported having oral sex.
The rules of oral sex: How to make sure she's enjoying it too
And giving a blowjob doesn't have to be a "job" for her, if you makes sure she's enjoying it too. If a woman is comfortable she will probably enjoy the act more, so be considerate of her comfort. This is rule number one.
In fact, it turns out that women may actually have evolved to be more attracted to blokes who regularly perform oral sex on them. Medical Daily draws this conclusion from a study of men in long-term straight relationships. They found that women who regularly receive oral sex are more likely to be faithful, with oral sex representing a key strategy for men to retain their women and keep them happy. But biologists also believe that there is another reason why women have evolved to enjoy oral so much. Sex experts claim that when women have oral sex performed on them before intercourse, it can drastically improve sex quality.